PROVERBS 25

THE VALUE OF THE RIGHT WORDS AT THE RIGHT TIME

Solomon continues sharing his wisdom and encouraging the reader to focus on self-awareness. Someone with understanding and self-awareness can apply their wisdom over a wide scope of issues, knowing not to over-indulge or overstay their welcome. When you’re around leaders or people of status, there is no need to elevate yourself or prove your importance. Let them seek out your value, don’t be a show-off. 

When you conflict with someone, go straight to that person to avoid having regret or causing shame. Using the right words and the right timing is like finding a gold ring that fits perfectly. Trusting in someone who hasn’t proven trustworthy is like biting down on a tooth with a toothache—painful and unreliable.

Solomon compares a person without self-control to a home without locks or security, meaning they are not safe and will be taken advantage of.